When I was about 7 I wanted to be a lawyer. Because “I like to talk” answered 7 year old
me when my dad asked me why. I’m not too
sure where that came from or how I even knew what a lawyer was, but by the time
I was about 10 I had refined it even further to an international corporate
lawyer. For the record, I had a fairly
normal childhood… besides moving a lot (A LOT) for my dad’s job life was pretty
standard.
The lawyer dream followed me pretty much through high school
and then I went to university. And that
was when I realized I had no clue what I wanted to do. Needless to say I am not a lawyer, I ended up
in marketing. Is it my dream job? Where I am now is pretty great actually, they
didn’t even have a marketing position before I started so I got to shape the
job into what I want and I work with some great people, I have a ton of support
for career development and growth ,but it’s still a corporate gig working 8.5
hours a day with limited vacation time.
And while I don’t wake up dreading going in, I don’t wake up jumping for
joy either.
Sometimes I think that I would love to be a stay at home
wife with no schedule so I could take a yoga class and meet people for lunch
and of course volunteer for a charity or two.
But then I think about the trade off and what being a SAHW would mean:
·
I would probably have to get up and make my
hubby’s breakfast because it would be the nice thing right?
·
I would have to say bye to our house cleaner
because I would obviously have enough time to clean the bathrooms and vacuum.
·
I would have to cook dinner. Every night. We know how
I feel about that (and if you don’t click
here).
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I wouldn’t be making my own money. Ugh.
·
I probably wouldn’t have that many friends to
have lunch with because they would be working.
So I might get bored.
So I think SAHW is out for me… well I know it’s out for me
but we’re fantasizing here right?
Oh and SAH-MOM is a whole different game but we don’t have a
kid so I’m not even touching that one. A
dream job seems more relaxing.
I think if I could do what I do with a teacher’s schedule I
would be pretty darn happy. I want
Christmas, summer, spring break; I want all the holidays off and big chunks of
time to enjoy life. Maybe one day my
company will love me so much that I will be able to make a schedule that works
for me. Maybe? Or maybe I haven't even discovered what my
dream job is yet.
Have you discovered what your dream job is?
I love your response, "because I like to talk." Haha it's just that simple!!!
ReplyDeleteI would take SAHM or SAHW any day! I love the satisfaction of checking things off MY list, rather than someone else's. SAHW isn't going to happen for me, but SAHM will some day!!!